Actually Unique Gifts for the Host or Hostess
Because no one needs another candle. These thoughtful picks strike the right balance of charm, wit, and practicality which is exactly what every good host appreciates. Whether you’re heading to a holiday party in Larchmont or a dinner with friends up the Hudson, these are the kinds of gifts that make you the person who always brings something just right.
1. For The Extroverted Introverts (or anyone over 45)
Hosting can be a joy, but every great host secretly counts down to the moment they can kick off their shoes and reclaim the sofa. For the friend who thrives on connection but values a quiet house just as much, bring something that makes them smile long after the guests are gone.
These Please Leave by 9 Embroidered Cocktail Napkins by Winston & Waverly embroidered cocktail napkins say what everyone’s thinking, but politely and with impeccable taste. Perfect for your friend who loves entertaining but also really, really loves going to bed early
Courtesy of Winston & Waverly
2. For Your Sushi-Loving Friend (that isn’t wine or champagne)
Every host has a well-stocked bar cart, but the best gifts are the ones that surprise. Instead of another bottle of wine, bring something they might never pick for themselves. This one happens to pair beautifully with takeout sushi nights and quiet celebrations alike.
The Dassai 23 Junmai Daiginjo Sake is perfect for the one who always insists on the good sushi spot. Smooth and subtly complex, this sake feels celebratory without being fussy.
Courtesy of Tippsy Sake
3. Since We’re All Back Into Sourdough Now
Breadmaking has once again found its way into weekend routines, and even if your host’s “starter” has a name, they’ll appreciate something that makes their loaves feel extra special. For gatherings where homemade bread (or bakery bread) takes center stage, presentation matters just as much as taste.
The Bread Warmer Collection by Korissa offer some stunning options to bring depending on the hosting theme. These handcrafted terracotta bread warmers keep loaves toasty and table-ready and if you can’t make it to the family gathering, just send the Bread Warmer Gift Box instead. It comes with a round wooden board and spoon, making it as thoughtful as it is beautiful. Every piece is ethically made, so it feels good to give, too.
Courtesy of Korissa
4. For The Tea Lover (You’ll Never Grab a Mug Again)
When the house quiets down after a night of entertaining, there’s something magical about brewing a pot of tea and reflecting on the evening. For the host who appreciates that ritual, or simply prefers tea to coffee, this gift is both timeless and beautiful.
We love anything and everything from Elsie Green, especially this Moroccan Tea Glass Set of 6 which are a refined upgrade for their daily ritual. These Moroccan glasses strike the perfect balance between elegant and everyday, making even a quick cup feel like a moment.
Courtesy of Elsie Green and Poppy Lynch Photography
5. For The Expert Gift Wrapper
There’s always one host who has their wrapping station organized by ribbon type. They’re the ones who take joy in the details, where presentation is half the fun. For them, wrapping paper isn’t an afterthought it’s an art form.
These elevated wrapping papers from Aspen & Arlo make any present feel custom. Pair with a gift card so they can choose their next set and thank you later when your gift becomes the best-dressed under the tree.
Courtesy of Aspen & Arlo
Bottom line: Thoughtful doesn’t have to mean predictable. These gifts celebrate the people who make every gathering feel like home, while quietly hoping everyone leaves on time.
Have a favorite or unique host or hostess gift that you’re still proud of today? Drop a comment below to share your tricks with us ahead of gifting season.